To avoid intrusive SPAM messages and communication with unwanted users, the VKontakte social network allows a person to block access to personal correspondence with him, limiting the circle of people who can write to him, for example, only to friends or to friends and their friends. This is an important and convenient feature that should be present on every social network, but it can lead to some difficulties. If a user who is not your friend urgently needs to contact you, and you have similar restrictions, he may have difficulty doing this. However, they are quite easy to overcome, and in this article we will look at how to write to VK to a person if his personal account is closed.

Send a message along with a friend request

No user can disable the ability to add themselves as friends, and this can be used if you need to send a message to a person. In order for your message to be sent along with a friend request, you need to do the following:

When the user then sees your friend request, it will be displayed along with this message.

Please note: This method is not the most effective, since not all users check the list of friend requests on a regular basis, often doing this once every few days, weeks or months, which is why your urgent message may not be read by the recipient in a timely manner.

Contact user via notifications

Another way to contact the user is to send him a notification. You can do this from any group or from your personal page; just mention the user in a message as follows:

The person whose ID was used in the message will receive a notification. By clicking on it, he will be able to read the message that was sent.

Contact a user through group conversations

Perhaps the best way to contact the user is to use group dialogues. It is necessary for one of your mutual friends to create a dialogue in which they would add both of you, after which you can correspond with each other.

If you need to contact a person whose personal messages are closed, and you don’t know any of his friends, you can try to find a friend of his whose personal messages are open. Contact such a friend and describe the situation to him. Ask him to add a person to your dialogue with whom you need to talk.

Despite the fact that getting in touch with a person in this way is the most likely, since VKontakte users regularly check their messages, this method is still very complex and requires the ability to negotiate with strangers who will unite you with the addressee in one dialogue.

Send a message along with the gift

Another way to contact a stranger is to send him a message along with a gift. To do this you will need:

As you can see, there are plenty of ways to contact a user if his personal messages are closed. If you urgently need to “reach out” to a person, you can use all the above options.

– this is a very important and useful function of the contact network. And every owner of his own page should be able to use it correctly.

It is thanks to this function that users of this social network can communicate with each other, so you need to be able to quickly and correctly give messages in contact to users, and those received from you.
Look at the answers people are asking online regarding messaging:

1. How to send a message in a contact?
2. How to write a message in contact?
3. How can users read other people's messages on VKontakte? - How about that? :))

And many others that I see no point in listing. But if there is such a question, then I will help you get the correct answer to it. After all, this can help someone in a timely manner.

So let's solve this problem and after reading this article, I personally think that every user can. Moreover, many of you want to learn how to make money on VKontakte, and this is very correct and promising.

Let's take a practical look at how you can send a message to a contact. After all, this is the most popular resource on the Russian-language Internet.

In order for you to send a message to another user of the VKontakte network, you should click on “My Messages” on the main page in the very first column of the menu (left column).

Then click on the “Write a message” button, as shown in the figure below.


In the new window, fill in the fields. In them we enter either your friend’s name or his email (mailbox), usually the name is entered. You can select several friends from your list if you are going to send the same message.

Let's say it's a holiday, a congratulatory text may be suitable for several users who will receive messages from you at the same time and with the same text.

Send messages to all your VKontakte friends

Send messages to your VKontakte friends more often and you will not be left without their attention either. This network provided a good opportunity for communication between friends and acquaintances. So why don't we take advantage of these opportunities?

But you need to learn how to work with messages in contact correctly, view them, and respond.

You can also use sending a message directly from the page you visited. The submit button will be located immediately below the profile owner's photo.

And if there is an icon like the one in the picture below, then you can use the VKontakte video messaging function.

But for this, the person must be on the site, and this feature works, as you understand, only when the webcam is turned on.

As for video communication in contact, I will also write an article on this topic on how to use video messages. Now I’ll briefly explain that this function is configured in your settings, in the privacy section, in which you can even prohibit the use of this function.

I think that VKontakte messages is the easiest function of this network.

Personal - what is it? How to write a personal message? We explain here.

What is a PM?

What does “personal”, “write in a personal” mean? PMs are personal messages. That is, such messages on a social network that are seen only by two people - you and the person with whom you are corresponding. Sometimes a personal message is called “LS” or “l/s” - it’s easy to understand that these are the same Private messages.“Write in PM” or “write in PM” means a request to write in private messages.

Strangers cannot see your personal information. This is what makes a private message different from comments - sometimes in comments people seem to communicate with each other, and everyone can see their dialogue. Personal messages are personal because only two participants in the correspondence (dialogue) see them.

There is a personal account on VKontakte, Odnoklassniki, Facebook and many other sites.

How to write a personal message?

The principle is this: open the person’s page, find the “Write a message” button there, write and send. See more details:

And if you wrote to him before or he wrote to you, you can find the dialogue in your “Messages” and write from there - there is no difference.

And when you want to write to a person you have already written to, just go to your messages section and find a dialogue with him there. Click on this dialog to open it, write a new message and send.

Why can't I write in a personal message?

It is not always possible to write in a personal message. A person could close his personal account - for example, leave it only for his friends. At the same time, others who are not his friends cannot write to him in a personal message. This is the most common case and the answer to the question “why can’t I write in a personal message?” What to do? If you really need to contact a person, ask one of their friends to pass it on to them, or find another way to contact them.

Sometimes people say “write me in a personal message,” but they forget or don’t understand that their personal message is private. We'll have to give them some kind of signal to get them to open it. For example, write in the comments or call. Look, for example, how to write to a person on VKontakte if his personal account is closed.

Close, open a personal message - how to understand this?

• Close PM- means prohibit other people (all or just non-friends) write you private messages.
• Open a personal message- on the contrary, means allow other people write you private messages.

You can find out how to close or open a personal message in VK here: How to close or open a personal message, how to hide information on your VK page - it talks about privacy settings, among which there is a limit on the circle of people who can write to you in a personal message.

Why doesn't the person respond in PM? When will he answer me?

He will answer when he wants. If he doesn't want to, he won't answer at all. Nothing obliges him to answer you. But you can determine whether he read your message: look here - VKontakte messages - new, unread, deleted. After reading this instruction, you will understand how to distinguish a read message from an unread one.

What else could “personal” mean?

Sometimes messages in a messenger (messaging program) are called PMs. There are many popular messengers: Telegram, WhatsApp, Viber and others. Facebook and VK have separate messengers, where there is only correspondence and no news feed.

Usually, if a person is in your contact list on your phone, then you can easily find him in one of the messengers (of course, if he uses it).

How can I find out what someone wrote to me in a personal message?

If you go to VK or Odnoklassniki and see an icon next to the word “Messages” (for example, the number “1”), it means that someone wrote to you in a personal message. The number means how many new messages you have. Click on “Messages” and there you will read what they wrote to you and who wrote it. And new messages are shown on the “Login” start page - and you don’t even need to log into VK or Odnoklassniki, that is, you remain invisible, people don’t see you online. Try it, it's very simple and convenient.

As you know, on the VKontakte social network, the user is endowed with quite large rights and can do a lot with his page. For example, if he wants, he can close messages from those users who are not his friends. The question arises - how then to write a message to this user?

The easiest way is to apply as a friend. The point is that during the application process you have the option to add a message. Yes, you will be added to the list of subscribers to this person, but he will receive your message.

This is how it is done. Go to the user’s page and click on the “Add as a friend” button.

You will see a small window to fill out. Write your message in it and click on the “Send” button.

The second option, if the first one doesn’t suit you for some reason, is to write a message to a friend of this user who has a private message open. You can write to him about your intentions, and this friend will already tell the user what you want from him. Yes, the option is not the best, but it is better than nothing.

The third option is to find groups or publics in which this user writes messages. In this case, you can ask him a question that interests you. Another thing is that the user in these communities does not unsubscribe.

How to write messages on VKontakte if you are on the blacklist?

If a user has listed you in, you will not have the opportunity to write to him, you will not even go to his page. Here's what you'll see:

At best, you can contact him through friends. Or personally, if you know this person.

As you remember, the VKontakte social network was originally created as a way to communicate with each other. Life does not stand still, and if earlier people had to correspond, sending letters to other cities or even countries, today there is no need for this, the main thing is the availability of the Internet.

How to write a message to a user

I’ll start with the simplest thing, I think for those who are just getting acquainted with the capabilities of this social network, this information will be useful. So, to send a message to a user, you must first of all open the “My Messages” section. Next, on the right side, you will see the “Write a message” button, click on it. Now, in the “Recipient” line, start typing your friend’s name, then select him from the list of suggestions. Enter the text itself and click “Submit”.

There is another way to send a text message, directly from the page of the intended recipient. If you go to his profile, you will see a “Send message” button under the avatar. Click on it, then write your message and send. By the way, to use this method, you don’t have to have this person as a friend. Of course, if he did not limit privacy.

By the way, it’s interesting that VK provides the function of sending a message to yourself. This is very convenient, because it happens when you need to save some documents, pictures, etc., and before you had to send all the information to your friends, and then save from the conversation materials. Now you can go to “My Messages”, select, again, “Write a message” and enter your name.

How to write a message if access is restricted

On VKontakte, each user can limit access to writing messages, that is, he deliberately narrows the circle of people who can write to him. If you are not included in this circle, but you really need to write, try adding this user as a friend. When you send an application, you can attach the text of the message to it, and even if the user rejects your application, he will definitely read the accompanying message.

These are the nuances of sending messages that exist on the VKontakte social network. I hope you found it interesting!

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